Hospital visit in God's time
24 March 10
We drove up to the Sunshine Coast this morning to stay with friends for a couple days, and I took the girls to visit D in hospital. We last saw Allison and her daughters in January, and early this week D was admitted to hospital with two partially collapsed lungs.
Although the circumstances of our visit weren’t great, it was wonderful to catch up with Allison and hear the full extent of D’s condition and treatment. (Basically, the doctors don’t know what causes D’s breathing problems and can only treat it when it gets bad.)


While D is in hospital, Allison has been caring for her without a break, even sharing her bed at night and monitoring D’s oxygen levels by opening an eye now and again to read the screen. The hospital doesn’t provide meals (except for breastfeeding mothers), so Al has been living off leftovers and the food that her husband brings in each day.



The timing of the whole hospital visit was one of those events in which we could see the hand of God clearly orchestrating everything. When we had arrived at Nigel and Melinda’s house in the morning, we had discovered that Nigel was nursing a broken arm.
Nigel was due to return to the hospital this afternoon for a check-up and to have a full cast set over his broken arm. (A partial cast is used for the first ten days to allow for a little bit of movement while the swelling goes down.) Nigel and Melinda had been praying for healing, but a broken arm is a broken arm, and it takes about six weeks to heal.
Melinda had initially been apprehensive about the timing of Nigel’s hospital appointment because it coincided with the time in which she needed to pick the kids up from school. However, we soon worked out that Nigel’s appointment was at the same hospital where Allison and D were admitted.
I was delighted to drive Nigel to the hospital and use the time to visit our friends. This freed up Melinda to pick her kids up from school at the right time.
At the hospital, the x-rays revealed that Nigel’s arm was already healed — after just ten days! This meant that Nigel didn’t need a cast on his arm. The doctors were astonished with the healing and had to consult among themselves to make certain that 1) Nigel’s arm had truly been broken in the first place and 2) his arm was now healed.
Coming home from the hospital, Nigel and I were rejoicing and praising God. At the same time, we were trying to fathom the depths of the circumstances that led to Nigel’s broken arm and now his sudden healing. What does it all mean, and how is God using Nigel in this? We’re not sure, but with God in charge, we certainly want to come along for the ride!


After dinner, the men headed off for Nigel’s Bible study, and Melinda and I shared what God has been teaching us. When the men got back, our conversation broadened slightly, and we discussed verses, the state of the global church and our journeys with God, staying up until midnight!

1 · Manou · 25 March 2010, 13:37
That is all wonderful!How GLAD I am the be on the winning side. Thank you Father God!
2 · LoriM · 25 March 2010, 23:06
Oh how heartbreaking to see little D so sick and hooked up in that hospital bed. Glad she was able to perk up and visit a bit; praying for wisdom for the doctors and healing for her; He did it for Nigel, and can do it for D if that is His will. Very encouraging post; I’m jealous of your deep conversations with friends. Maybe I need to work on that…..
3 · Dakota's Noni · 26 March 2010, 01:14
Lauren, thank you for the pictures and accounting of Dakota in hospital. Being in the US is difficult, and this made it easier to see our precious girls. thank you so much!
You are a treasured friend.
4 · Larissa · 18 May 2010, 21:20
So sad to see someone so young so sick. Awesome to hear about the healing of your friend Nigel! Our God is on the Throne and reigns eternally!